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A poem I wrote when I felt lost; written on February 21, 1994.

I do not feel lost now. But I do see the horizon, and it's evening time.

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Hello again,

my old friend;

the inner me

i've come to see

and find, i hope,

some solice here,

the world 'round me's

become so queer.

Self of mine

one more time

lead me from this confused night

lead me back into the light.

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