Mary S. (aka "Army Sonoma") asked me to post some pictures of Joy. I don't think she's seen her since Joy was a puppy. Mary--along with Julie M.-- was my college roommate. Joy was the little puppy I adopted my last year at UC Davis. In this photo, Joy is just completely unwilling to let me get far enough away to get a picture of her that is in the correct perspective. I snapped this in 2003, at the ranch.
What would we women do without the guys on the fringes? The men who love us unconditionally even knowing that we will probably never go out with them. The men who see us for who we really are while we are busy chasing the bad boys; the players; the guys who are going to take advantage and then forget about us. But then those men on the fringes... they're the real ones. They aren't poster boys for Chippendales or the firefighter calendar, but they are there for us and we lean on them. The Fringe guys. They prop us up when we are falling apart. They remember our birthdays and the day that our pet passed away. They remember our favorite color and they want to brighten our day almost every day. They love us and when we make excuses for why we won't date them they believe our excuses. They listen to our conscience-easing excuses, and they hope that they can believe the maybe of it. We say maybe and they hear yes when we mean no. And all of that keeps it going round and round, ov...
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