It hurts him that you say he's a player. To him, that is an insult. I understand why you might think he is. It took me a while to understand him. Very few people get to see the private side of him. Even people who have known him for years get the public guy; the version of himself that he has built over decades. He is a charismatic man. He has appeal for almost everybody, and his quiet, funny, occasionally off-color banter is definitely appealing to women. And he has many women around him. They're his groupies; friends on Facebook who've never met him but adore him, nonetheless. It's so apparent that I often tease him about it, in fact. His groupies. That's exactly what they are. And I can understand that you see all this, and you think that he would leverage it to his benefit. You've known him for some years, I think. Longer than I have, I know. But I know who he is behind closed doors. I know of the things that even he doesn't admit are his insecurities...
My creative outlets have all dried up, it seems. I think I may be searching for new places to scratch in some ideas. Le Voila! A solution! My blog is born.
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